matchmaking show

Due to the fact that I was too bored to write anything of good quality. ie. epic quotes from teachers, I decide to write something about this matchmaking show I watched in china. But being a person who is very very very inexperienced in romance, I would only provide my own noob views. Bear with me.
Basically the show is about 1 man meeting 24 women during the show, and the man has 3 rounds to go through.
First he would look at all the 24 women and choose the one he's interested in (without anyone knowing).
First round is where all the 24 women would choose whether to be 'uninterested' in him based on first impressions. Second round is where a video of the man would be shown introducing himself, and the remaining would can choose to be 'uninterested' in him. Third round is where another video of the man would be shown talking about his view towards his love life, and of course the remaining women could be uninterested in him. Then if there are any women remaining who are still interested, he would choose 2 of them, together with the one he was interested in before the first round. (As you can see the one he is interested may not like him). After which the man can choose 10 basic infos he wants to understand about the 3, together with asking one question which the 3 would have to answer. At the end he would make his choice among the 3 women, if he chose one of the 2 who indicated their interest, they could go off immediately. If he chose the one who he was interested in at first (and got rejected most likely), he has 30 seconds to try to convince her (and probably fail). But there seem to be incidents where the one he is interested in also indicated her interest. ie. love at first sight?
Anyways after providing so much fluff, what I feel about this show is that both sides (man and women) don't really see each others' true self, and hence both sides can be very fake, especially from the woman's side (sry for that) because theres 24 women vs 1 man, and only the man is revealing things about himself. When I first watched the show I was rather disgusted with the attitude of certain number of women, cus I feel as though they were more of niaoing the man instead of providing anything useful. It's like even a noob sensor like me could see that the way they talk and stuff are so fake and very hostile.
But as the fanyi is too nice to everyone, my view changed quite quickly. (like now) Especially when I realised (cus she said herself) that one of the women whom I disliked because of her pure niao attitude, actually seemed to be a rather mature person. She probably picked up that mask because she used to be 'fat and ugly' as quoted by her, so maybe that's why she chose to act that way to protect herself.
Seeing that even teenagers now a days need to act out their life in order to protect themselves and probably give people a much better impression, it is no wonder grown up women do the same. It's only that I feel such masks only shielded others out and preventing contact with people, but ironic since I do the same to hide myself away.
For example I could make a joke out of anything, in an attempt to gain other people's agreement or laughter, such that even when talking about serious matters I'm not serious at all.
Makes me wonder whether I really helped anyone with his / her problem seriously before. I wished for too much, and thus I am very careful, so careful that it becomes annoying, and it backfires to a joke.
I didn't know I wanted myself to be so funny o.o