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I wonder if there is anyone who comes to me and talks about his or her personal problem.
I think I'm a listener, but whether or not I'm a caring listener would require others to see.
I'm very different in school, probably because I'm afraid / shy to show others about my real self. That's probably why some people gasp when I told them my DOPE test showed that I'm a dove, or that I'm ISFJ.
I might be unable to obtain somewhere in the middle, I can only take on the ends of the spectrum. Either I randomed around until people see that I'm not serious at all, or I try to be serious and resulted in people thinking I'm moody / gloom / sad.
It is true that I'm not good at helping people solve the problem, I can only try to make them feel better. But I suppose it's not happening at the moment, because I don't really see people coming to me in person or online. It's probably that they don't find me a serious enough person to talk about personal issues, or they don't trust me enough (which comes from the fact that they don't find me serious enough), or they have other friends to talk about those issues (and thus I would not have a good chance), or they like to emo alone.
Upon looking back at a poll I did before, I highly doubt that 'too nice to people' is a compliment at all. In what way am I too nice to people? If I'm really too nice to people, why people don't find me to talk about personal issues? Why they only come to ask about work, or to ask me to do things for them? Is 'too nice' merely a replacement word for 'being a good tool'?
Sorry I was firing up. I'm actually blaming others for not trusting me instead of reflecting on how much I have done.
But I'm not sure what to do. Should I be more active in helping others? Or should I work on showing that I'm someone you can trust to share your problems (not school work) with?
For those reading this now, hope it doesn't bother you to provide some feedback to me, whether here, through email or in person. I just want to know how I can change, and what is your impression of me.